Why This Matters in Marriage:
1️⃣ Ownership of Mistakes:
When a husband makes his own decision (even if wrong), he takes responsibility.
If you insist on a choice that fails? He’ll blame you forever.
2️⃣ Prophetic Wisdom on Leadership:
Islam places men as Qawwam (maintainers) (Quran 4:34) – leadership includes learning through experience.
The Prophet ﷺ guided gently but allowed companions to learn through action (e.g., Battle of Uhud).
3️⃣ Practical Application:
Instead of: "Don’t do that, it’s wrong!"
Say: "What do you think is best? I trust your judgment."
Result: He reflects deeply before acting.
